I am a 30-year-old virgin. Yes, you’re reading it right. No typo. 30 years old and yes we exist. For as long as I can remember I have always been an ambivert. I don’t mind hanging out at social gatherings but also I am so comfortable being alone that sometimes it scares me. I had my […]
What’s your biggest fear on a date? Being catfished or being stood up? Well, for me, it’s being asked to pay for a date. I just can’t stand the embarrassment of a man asking me to pay for whatever reason. My mind instantly judges a broke guy so harshly; I can’t imagine being on a […]
Boyfriends come in all shapes and sizes; they are a part of every young woman’s growth and maturity, yet some of them are not good for us. Having a boyfriend can reveal different layers of our personality: who we are and what we’re willing to tolerate – once you’ve gone through a handful, you’ll be […]
I was scrolling through my tab during my lunch break when an invitation to my high school reunion came in. “Dear Esteemed Alumni,” It began. “We are happy to have you again at the place you called home for four years. Welcome to the Class of ‘08 High School Reunion that will take place on […]
Everybody (who is of dating age) has an ex. Some of them leave quietly never to be seen again. Then, there are those ones who don’t want to leave or you don’t want to let go of. Dealing with an ex can be a bittersweet experience. However, it’s important to remember that this is someone […]
The corporate world hasn’t always been my cup of tea. I loved my career but the work environment always seemed hostile. I was always the new girl so everyone looked at me like a threat. Additionally, I put in an effort into my appearance which made many of my female co-workers slightly jealous. This made […]
While many men strive to be like the picture perfect movie stars, women are drawn to more realistic everyday men. There’s nothing wrong with working on your image. However, you should know these unusual things that make men attractive. A Bulge Mwanaume ni kitambi. Well, not literally. Men with a little bulge in their midsection make […]
There are a large number of benefits to dating someone who is of a different race than yourself. These benefits include a different perspective, enjoying the beauty of a wider range of people, and ironically enough escaping unnecessary artificial boundaries. Some of these benefits are downright obvious when you really think about it, but they […]
Many guys are looking for love in a hopeless place. Not Tinder. Tinder is great. Their profile is the hopeless place I’m talking about. Everything begins with a profile whether you’re looking for a job or looking for love. So, I don’t understand while people don’t put the same energy than complaining that they’re not […]
Relationships are all sweet and mellow for the first few months then you start noticing things that make you annoyed like how they chew or the strange way they pronounce some words. It’s normal to get bored when you’ve been in a relationship with someone for a while. Instead of calling it quits, try these […]
He used the words begrudgingly and decipher in a sentence correctly, was all I could think as he kept talking across the table. I love big words and I can not lie, and inner me was jumping up and down with joy. Our meals had been untouched for several minutes as we each got too […]
I work in the beauty industry and every time I go into the office a man tries to hit on me. As if it’s not enough insult that a woman’s field is dominated by men, they also feel the need to make their presence known. Before you tell me to take it up with the […]
Most of us saw Beauty and the Beast when we were younger (or even yesterday, we won’t judge!). It was a nice story that hinged on the really beautiful heroine falling for the beast (literally) and breaking the curse. While in a fairy tale that is plausible, there are instances in real life you may […]
Many people meet on dating apps and have success stories. There’s no shame in the game anymore. More people are sharing their dating app stories and surprisingly, there are some envious relationships out there that started on a dating app. So, if you’re wondering how to meet and make long-lasting relationships with people on apps […]
“Hi. Are you up?” The text read. I was up but I didn’t reply. It was 2 am. Who texts someone at 2 am? I’ll tell you who. Stalkers and drunk friends. Thank God I turned off my last seen on WhatsApp otherwise it would have been a slippery slope. The next morning, I got […]